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To the girl I love,
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You often call me crazy alien therefore I have chosen the old way to write you a letter.
Sorry, today I don’t feel like using messenger or any social media. These wonderful tools have been taking some of our precious good habits away. I truly think it sucks. Don’t you?
So I have decided to pen you letters the old way from now on. Here is the first. I hope you don’t take it wrong.
Besides, I want this moment to be genuine. I want you to hold my letter and feel the warm in every word.
My babe, the other day, you were interested in the kind of woman that I would like to be my wife. It made me reflect a lot.
For fear of getting confused or lost, I have come to the following conclusion:
I know that the world doesn’t revolve around me but as a complete being, I have my own perception of life and happiness. Isn’t it what we all long for? To be happy?
Well, my babe, deep down, I know I am an introverted even though I prefer to call myself ambivert. I love to spend quality time alone because it is the only way for me to find and know my true self. Of course I enjoy people’s company but there are days when I need to be left alone because I need to replenish. Keeping my energy positive and full is how I find happiness.
I’ve mentioned this because most of my breakups were the results of the misunderstanding of this part of my personality.
Most of the time, people (especially girls I used to date) think that it is because I don’t love them that I am tired of their company. It’s not quite true I can assure you. I can love you and still want to be left alone at times. It wouldn’t be about you, believe me.
Can you stand this? Because the woman I would like to be my wife will have to.
That woman of my life needs to love herself enough to want to be autonomous. It’s the best way to be a good teammate I believe and I would like her to be my teammate, my bestfriend and my real partner.
Although makeups create a very interesting version of people, People’s need of this artificial is definitely beyond my ken. I wouldn’t like the woman of my life to make use of this. I want her genuine and natural.
I am a man of vision and I carry very big dreams on this perilous journey of self-accomplishment. I want to make positive impact and participate in making this world a better place so I guess my need of a woman of vision is therefore understandable. Trust me, it would be a tragedy for her to have sight and lack vision. These are words from Helen Keller that I strongly adopt.
Babe, I may have the reputation to be a perfectionist but if there is something I have learned in life, it’s obvious that perfection doesn’t exist and therefore I do not demand it. Nevertheless, I would like the woman who will be my life partner to be open minded with a witty sense of humor.
Babe, will you be my wife?
Your Introverted,
Paterne Freeman Shadowriter
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You know, sometimes it is the small imperfections that make the relationship interesting but helas! there are so many factors to consider. the choice must be by far based only on the physical. Because love is kind of way to recognize yourself into the other
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You said it all brother. Most people don’t understand and it is truly sad. Physical appearances eventually fade away. If only they knew. Beauty lies in the shade of our imperfections.
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